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“Thinking is more interesting than knowing, but less interesting than looking” — Johann Wolfgang von Goethe |
You improve your communication with
others when you can match their thinking style.You can also avoid rubbing your boss
the wrong way by paying close attention to how they approach the tasks of the
day.
Key Take Always
Here are my key take always:
Here are my key take always:
·
Seek first to
understand, then to be understood.
The more you understand somebody, the better you can adapt your style. I think
the five thinking styles are a helpful framework in addition to understanding
somebody’s learning style ( auditory, visual, or kinesthtic), their NLP meta-programs, their motivation (towards pleasure or away
from pain), their values, their
"rules", their extraversion and introversion tendencies, their
passive or aggressive tendencies, whether they are more
"task-centered" or "people-centered", their decision making
style (consult-and-decide or build consensus), and their management styles (Autocratic, Paternalistic, Democratic, andLaissez-faire.)
·
Establish
rapport. I think the heart of identifying
the five thinking-styles revolves around establishing rapport. Rapport is the
key to communication, influence, and trust.
·
Know the
anti-patterns. It’s probably more important to
know how to avoid rubbing somebody the wrong way, than getting the preferred or
ideal communication style exactly right.
·
Wear different
hats. I think you can use the Six-Thinking Hats concept to switch
your hat based on who you are working with. Each hat you put on or take off can
represent a different thinking style.
Five Thinking Styles
the five thinking styles are:
the five thinking styles are:
·
Synthesists
·
Idealists
·
Pragmatist Thinkers
·
Analyst Thinkers
·
Realist Thinkers
Synthesists
"Synthesists are creative thinkers who perceives the world in terms of opposites. When you say black, they think white, when you say long, they think short."
To connect with Synthesists, "listen appreciatively to their speculation and don’t confuse their arguing nature with resistance."
"Synthesists are creative thinkers who perceives the world in terms of opposites. When you say black, they think white, when you say long, they think short."
To connect with Synthesists, "listen appreciatively to their speculation and don’t confuse their arguing nature with resistance."
Idealists
"Idealists believe in lofty goals and standards."
To connect with Idealists, "associate what you want to do with these goals of quality, service, and community good."
"Idealists believe in lofty goals and standards."
To connect with Idealists, "associate what you want to do with these goals of quality, service, and community good."
Pragmatic Thinkers
"Pragmatic thinkers are flexible, resourceful folk who look for immediate payoff rather than for a grand plan that will change the world."
"Pragmatic thinkers are flexible, resourceful folk who look for immediate payoff rather than for a grand plan that will change the world."
To connect with Pragmatists, "emphasize short-term objectives on which
you can get started with resources at hand."
Analyst Thinkers
"Analyst thinkers equate accuracy, thoroughness, and attention to detail with completeness. They are likely to gather data, measure it, categorize it, and rationally and methodically calculate the right answer to any problem you come up with.
To connect to Analysts, "provide a logical plan replete with back-up data and specifications."
"Analyst thinkers equate accuracy, thoroughness, and attention to detail with completeness. They are likely to gather data, measure it, categorize it, and rationally and methodically calculate the right answer to any problem you come up with.
To connect to Analysts, "provide a logical plan replete with back-up data and specifications."
Realist Thinkers ”Realist thinkers are fast moving doers who know that
reality is what their senses – sight, sound, taste, smell, and touch – tell
them it is, and not that dry stuff that one finds in accounting ledgers, or the
insipid pages of manual of operations."
To connect with Realists, Bramson
suggests, "If you communicate with Realist bosses as if they were
Analysts, you will never get their attention. Rather than gobs of
computer-printouts and other detailed information, Realists want a
three-paragraph “Executive Summary” which tells briefly what is wrong and how
you propose to fix it. For rather complicated reasons, they will often take you
at your word if they see you as a qualified expert. You become an expert in
their eyes when they know that you’ve assembled a store of facts in which they
are interested, and you have proposed a set of actions that they already
believe are the best things to do.”
How To Use the Five Thinking Styles
Take the time to place your boss or who you need to interact with into one or two of the five thinking-style categories. Keep in mind that while one or two styles predominates for most people, about fifteen percent use all five styles equally. Those who do, are seldom difficult bosses. Once you’ve identified their preferred categories, figure out how you can change your approach to better suit their style.
Take the time to place your boss or who you need to interact with into one or two of the five thinking-style categories. Keep in mind that while one or two styles predominates for most people, about fifteen percent use all five styles equally. Those who do, are seldom difficult bosses. Once you’ve identified their preferred categories, figure out how you can change your approach to better suit their style.
By: Sources of Insight
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